Today I dedicate this blogpost to my son. Instead of writing about him, I will write him a letter.
Dear Son
Happy 3 months. Today you turn 3 months. A whole 3 months. This far you have come God has been good. I want to let you know that 8th April, 2015 was one of my happiest days when the nurse asked me to hold my son. It was surreal holding you and take you to the nursery. Your eyes were wide open totally oblivious to your surrounding. Perhaps you were wondering where this is and sometimes you look like you still wonder. Not to worry...this is earth and it is a wonderful place. You were born to dominate this place and it has been waiting for your arrival. I am sure by the time you are reading this you will be a little grown so it will not be your third month birthday. By now I know you have figured out your name: Nathaniel Nduati Njaaga. This is the name your mother and I gave you and I shall explain it for you.
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| moments after your birth |
Nathaniel is a Hebrew name meaning, 'Given of God or God's Gift'. Am sure a Google search would reveal as much if not more. I want you to know that you are a gift from God to us. We might be your parents but we are just stewards of this gift and at the appropriate time we shall release you to the world to be all you can be. Nduati is a Kikuyu name, actually my father, your grandfather had the same name. I honor my father. Njaaga is your surname, my name and it ties me to you. I want you to know that inasmuch as we have named you NNN, you decide your own destiny, you decide your own fate.
As your father, I speak great blessing upon your life. As the first born, you shall be a leader and give direction to your sibling(s). You are already a leader.
Like Noah, you will be used by God in your generation to lead men to their safety
Like Abraham, you will be a friend of God and you shall walk closely with Him
Like Isaac, you shall find the right wife for you.
Like Joseph, you will dream dreams and actualize them
Like Joshua, you shall be courageous and bold
Like Samson, you shall be a decisive man and not be double minded
Like David, you will be a man after God's own heart.
Like Solomon, you shall grow and be full of wisdom
Like Nehemiah, you shall be a rebuilder of what the enemy has brought down.
Like Jeremiah, you are a prophet to the nations
Like Daniel, Shadrack, Meshack and Abednego you shall not defile yourself with the pleasures of this world and you will become 10 times better than your peers in every aspect of your life.
Like Ezekiel, you shall depend on the Lord and not rely on your wisdom.
Like Zerubbabel son of Shealtiel, you shall not depend on your own might or power but on the Spirit of the Lord
At the age of 12 just like Jesus you shall be about the Lord's business and shall grow having favour with man and God
Like the prodigal son, you will always come back to your senses in case you lose your way and you will always know that my arms will be wide open to receive you.
Like Nathaniel no deceit shall be found in you. You will be an honest man.
You shall be self confident, not suffer identity issues. In a world full of men in crisis you shall be a beacon of hope to your generation. You shall discover your purpose and live to your full potential. You will not wander aimlessly in this world trying to figure yourself out but the Lord shall order your steps and you shall find your purpose. Perhaps at the time you are reading this, you are well on your way to knowing who you are.
You shall escape the adulterous woman, the loose woman because the Lord shall be with you. Instead, you shall be the perfect gentleman and treat women right. Be wary of wine and drink, many have lost their sight and vision because of it. Be sober and avoid the allure of alcohol and strong drink.
Son, you may feel the pressure to match up to the examples pointed herein. If you are wired like me, then I know you have it in you to pursue perfection and this could weigh you down in case you don't attain it. Fret not, we have prayed for you and you will be okay. Enjoy life, follow after God and the rest shall flow.
The words I speak upon you, I speak as your father and I will constantly affirm you and nurture you to be the man God created you to be. Your mother and I commit to raise you in a godly way and may God crown our efforts with success. Son, I want to let you know that the greatest decision you will ever make is to accept Jesus as Lord and saviour of your life. It is a personal decision but one which will change your life forever. Live for God and you will be fulfilled.
Son, remember that godliness with contentment is of great gain. The pressure to gain wealth and influence surrounds us even more so in your generation. Wealth and riches do not define you and can never satisfy you so do not be misled in chasing after them. Do not feel inadequate because you lack this or that but know that your security comes from God. Money is good for the good it can do but God is your ultimate source and trust Him and He will provide all your needs. What you do not have, you do not need.
Do not be afraid of failure. Failing is inevitable but being a failure is a choice. Know that in this world you shall have moments of self-doubt, disappointment, even failure. It is okay. Do not stay down, pick yourself up and in the words of your grandmother, life must go on. Even in nadir moments, remember that the Lord is with you. Reach out to Him and He will come to your rescue.
Finally, the journey of parenthood is a life long process. It is exciting to watch you grow and may God give us long life to see all God's promises on your life come to pass. We as your parents commit to be there for you. As your father, I tell you, 'you are my son in whom I am well pleased'. Do not forget that. Remember that God is the ultimate father and He transcends time and will always be there for you. Go forth and be all you can be.
Oh I almost forgot, as for me and my house, we support Manchester United. I am sure you identify with the jerseys in your locker by now. I hope you can perpetuate this legacy. In case you wander away and are dissuaded by your cousins or peers to support another club, just make sure it is not Chelsea, Arsenal, Liverpool or Manchester City!
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| 27 days old |
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| what's up? |
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| coz am happy... |
Your Dad
P.Njaaga Nduati
Amen!!
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